Monday, 30 August 2010

notes hour two day one

intersection of diff cultures
diferent rhythm of speech
dominant cultures uncomfortable with silence
native americans have a great comfort with silence
american government assumed silence was consent
no break in communication plan
westernized
capitalistic consumeristic society
repeat everything they say
focus
to be an avid listener
helped him listen
but he needed more time to compose a response
deepest response
engaged pedagogy
pedagogy of the oppressed
evaluate our style of engagement
educational philosophy
primary goal---not to make experts
skill as conflict resolvers
critical analysis skills
engage with world in a proactive skilled way
techniques used are very deliberate
engaged pedagogy
paulo freire
deconstruct heirarchies
self discovery
agency can shift the society overall!!!!!!
social justice shift
critical analysis an essential piece
dissertation
peace education
principles that are important
critcal pedagogy
question and understand
greater social justice
reconnect
engage
theory of the world
take our thinking back
underpinnings
educational process
what works for us as learners
passive learning
transaction
transcend the heirarchy
educational needs met more effectively to value your voice!!!!
active and critical participant!!!!

notes day one---second part

intersection of diff cultures
diferent rhythm of speech

dominant cultures uncomfortable with silence
native americans have a great comfort with silence

american government assumed silence was consent

no break in communication plan

westernized
capitalistic consumeristic society

repeat everything they say
focus
to be an avid listener

helped him listen


but he needed more time to compose a response
deepest response
engaged pedagogy

pedagogy of the oppressed

evaluate our style of engagement
educational philosophy

primary goal---not to make experts
skill as conflict resolvers
critical analysis skills
engage with world in a proactive skilled way
techniques used are very deliberate

engaged pedagogy
paulo freire
deconstruct heirarchies

self discovery
agency can shift the society overall!!!!!!

social justice shift
critical analysis an essential piece
dissertation
peace education
principles that are important
critcal pedagogy
question and understand
greater social justice
reconnect
engage
theory of the world
take our thinking back
underpinnings
educational process

what works for us as learners
passive learning
transaction
transcend the heirarchy

educational needs met more effectively to value your voice!!!!

active and critical participant!!!!

syllabus

Introduction to Conflict Resolution CR301U
Instructor: Amanda Byron
Required Reading:
All reading will be assigned and provided to students as handouts or web links
Course Description:
This class is a highly interactive intensive introduction to the field of conflict resolution and conflict studies. It will explore both the nature of conflict and our understanding of what resolution seeks to achieve. Particular emphasis will be placed on the strategies students currently employ towards conflict in their own lives, with suggestions and examples that broaden their understanding of what is possible. Small groups, simulated conflict situations, role plays, and examples from real life will provide students with the opportunity to both understand their own strategies and develop new ones.
Course Expectations:
Students are expected to be present in class and actively participate in discussion. Students will be asked to participate in small, in-class discussion groups on a regular basis, and will be encouraged to take leadership in discussing course materials.
There is a very reasonable amount of reading expected, and daily writing assignments, which will be evaluated on both content and writing. Special emphasis will be placed on the development of clear, direct, assertive communication that involves active listening and respect for others. This kind of communication is to be practiced and incorporated into the written assignments, as well as in the small group and class discussions.
Attendance and Participation:
There will be 20 participation points given for each day of class. Any absence or tardiness will detract from your daily points. Sleeping in class, or disengaging with computer, newspaper, or outside reading, will also impact your participation points.
Reflection Papers:
Students will write a reflection paper on each day’s reading assignments. These reflection papers should be between 1 and 2 pages, and will be evaluated for content as well as strength in writing. Papers should reflect on your thoughts about the readings, as opposed to a simple summary or book report, and you are encouraged to share any insights or questions that you have in response. You can draw upon your own personal experiences to highlight your thoughts and reactions. Papers are expected to be well written and proofed for errors. Each paper is worth 25 points, and there will be 3 papers. These papers will be due Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday, before/when you arrive to class.
Final Paper:
The final paper is a five to eight (5-8) page research paper on an area of conflict or conflict resolution that is of particular interest to you. Your paper must follow APA style (without the abstract or the title page) and must incorporate at least five references, either from course reading or from your own research. This paper can earn up to 100 points, and is due September 10th at 5pm.
Evaluation:
Grades will be based on class participation (100 points available), three reflection papers (75 points available), and your final paper (100 points available). In this system an A=275-245, a B=244-205, a C=204-165, a D=164-125, and an F=125 and below.
SCHEDULE Monday Topics: Conflict, Resolution, and Conflict Resolution 9 Introductions 9:30 Ground Rules and CR Communication 10 Lecture and discussion about Conflict, Resolution and Conflict Resolution 10:30 Small Group Discussion and Sharing 11 Listening 12 Lunch: Read Conflict Transformation
http://beyondintractability.org/essay/transformation/?nid=1346
and Interests, Positions, Needs, and Values
http://beyondintractability.org/essay/interests/?nid=1026
2 Positions and Interests 3 Tips in Conflict: Curiosity, Interests, and Integration 4 Closing, questions, reminders
Remember: Your first reflection paper is due tomorrow morning when you come to class!
Tuesday
Topics: CR Communication, Conflict Styles, Power, and Culture and Conflict Reading: Read about conflict styles and complete the personal inventory at
http://peace.mennolink.org/resources/conflictstyle/styles.html
and The Train Clanked: http://www.wattstapes.com/dobson.htm 9 Reading Discussion
9:30 Dual Concern Model 10:30 Power and Conflict 11:30 Case Studies 12 Lunch: Culture and Conflict
http://beyondintractability.org/essay/culture_conflict/?nid=1186
and McIntosh
http://www.racismagainstindians.org/WhitePrivilege/InvisibleKnapsack.htm
and come to class with at least one question or comment.
2
3 4
Culture and Conflict: How does your background impact your daily life, your communication and the way you engage with conflict? Film: For the Bible Tells Me So Discussion
Wednesday
Topics: Reading:
Violence and Nonviolence, Media Violence
Story#3, “This story concerns a monastery” @
http://www.luthersem.edu/stewardship/resource_detail.aspx?resource_id =199 Martin Luther King Jr.’s “Letter from a Birmingham Jail” http://abacus.bates.edu/admin/offices/dos/mlk/letter.html
9 Reading discussion 10 Definitions and the Conflict Management Continuum 11 Film: Force More Powerful and Discussion 12 Lunch: Read The Dalai Lama and the Master of Kung Fu:
http://vajrakrishna.wordpress.com/2009/05/03/the-dalai-lama-and-the- master-of-kung-fu/ and Barak, Secrets of Violence and Nonviolence: http://books.google.com/books?id=- _mCXeWxmjUC&lpg=PA3&ots=UzIuJnzRFN&dq=barak%20%2522Sec rets%20of%20Violence%20and%20nonviolence%2522&pg=PA3#v=one page&q&f=false
2 Violence 3 Media Violence 4 Nonviolence: Case Studies
Thursday
Topics: Reading:
Enmification, Forgiveness and Reconciliation, Restorative Justice
Read 10 stories at http://www.theforgivenessproject.com And Principles of Justice and Fairness http://beyondintractability.org/essay/principles_of_justice/?nid=1012
9 Enmification 10 Discussion of Forgiveness and Reconciliation 11 Introduction to Restorative Justice 12 Lunch: Read A big tough samurai @
http://bkmeditation.blogspot.com/2007/08/heaven-and-hell.html
and watch the Being Peace clip at http://www.beliefnet.com/index/index_1031.html and come to class prepared with a question or comment
2 Film: Meeting with a Killer 3 Discussion
Friday
Topics: Contexts of Conflict Resolution and Mediation Practice
Reading: Mediation http://www.beyondintractability.com/essay/mediation/ Transformative Mediation
http://www.beyondintractability.com/essay/transformative_mediation/
And Problem Solving Mediation
http://www.beyondintractability.com/essay/problem-solving_mediation/
9 Contexts of CR: How is it applied in the “Real World”? 10 The Mediation Process 11 Mediation Demonstration and Discussion 12 Lunch: No reading!!!
1 2 3
Mediation Role Play Debrief/Discussion Conflict Resolution Final Un-Jeopardy!
Final Papers Due September 10th at 5pm!
Work submitted by students will be evaluated for academic honesty. Any breech of academic honesty will be met with the consequences established by Portland State University policy.
Please notify instructor if you need special accommodation.
conflict resolution

amanda smith byron

that we might consider ourselves all experts

the onion of conflict resolution

interdisciplinary field

something that has developed over th last 20 years
field of inquiry

still definging itself

specialization

philosophical approach

robert gould a philosopher at PSU

U of O
paralegal ADR focus

we look at social justice
international justice intercultural

intrapersonal conflict
stress within own life

interpersonal with others
on the outside

valuable and informs alll the other kinds of conflict---interpersonal conflicts are a part of group conflicts

nature of workplace conflict

structural
racism
ethnic
piolitical
economic

political environmental global

PTSD
speak in low tones
non-accusatory
fight and light

george mason university---DOD funded
specializes in doublespeak
peacekeeping deception socialized
troops

move away from conflict bad/resolution good dichotomy
sturm and drang
tensions
gravity
polarizations


productive or destructive conflict
dangerous to build dichotomies
overly simplistic
as destructive phenomenon

language as violence
linguistic violence
irigaray
sexism within french!

who we are and what the world is like
conflict a productive or constructive phenomenon
abuse is never okay

no stereotype
what if
understood conflict to negotiate it more effectively
workplace drama
patriarchy
religions
family parent child
road rage
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power
friction
violence
culture
growth
opportunity
oppression
pain
disconnect
productive constructive
competition
dominance
skillful mediation
divorce
white supremacist patriarchal
miscommunication
imperialism
dominant culture model of mediation
ignorance
death
competative model
value/belief
perception
loss of home
communications
war
destructive
shift competative dynamic
bail-outs
imbalance
compromise
scheduling
instructor
oversimplify
passion
friend
existence
boss
stress
illness
tension
stretching
ATAVISM
HISTORICAL EONS OF OPPRESSION
healing
perseverence
frustrations

destributive negotiation
------limited resources and inevitable competition
positional bargaining---i want the orange!!!

integrative negotion---we dont know that we are in competition
ask why? interest based bargaining

take zest, take juice---a win-win is possible----dont presume competition---non-competative model---radical way of approaching conflict---different systems---positional bargaining---

mutually satisfying outcomes---the orange---fight over it

TOOL: curiosity
when terrified not very curious----create ease---then there is the capacity to be curious about the situation

implementation
breathe
sacrafice
empathy
progress
time
ground rules
perseverence
serenity
trust
war
respect
non-judgement
acceptance
mediation
time
intention



relative
impulsive
interpretive
confusion
combatting

conflict resolution communication
clear clarity
open ended
dont impte blame right off the bat
respectful
tone/approach

eye contact
relationship focus
empathy
allow venting
empathy for frustration
calm---dangerous---to be hushed and civilized---
concise
third party
sharing stories
active listening
no blame
empathy
compassion

non combative
understanding
patience
sharing stories
use I not you
accountability
I feel like feeling response

isolate the issue

active listening
desire to reach out
active problem solving
interactive\strengths based
honesty
theater of the oppressed
isolating
issue
honesty truth tact
reflection/reflective
what works in conflict resolution

emulate in conversation
in papers
the exchanges
desire to reach out
feminist discourse
radiacal notion that all human beings have value
negativity cast upon the word
dispel

radical notion that all humans are of value
post-gender
rogerian argumentation

debate club
rogerian says why not come up with a discourse we find a way to find common ground bc this is more challenging

this is right
this is wrong
whta is more interesting
there is lots of common ground---not sensational
differences have context

conflict resolution communication
judgement with explanation
we dont have judgment with explanation

ground rules
parameters within class
ground rules
not talking over each other
slur epithets
speaking/don’t dominate
diversity of presentation